Q
Dear EE,
A girl I’ve been dating for 4 months now is developing an annoying habit. She comes over, we enjoy each other’s company, we end up in bed, I do everything I can to make her feel incredible (I’m talking a lot of effort on my part), she returns nothing, gets her rocks off and within 10 to 20 minutes she gets dressed and leaves right when I’m ready to do it all over again. 
The last time I felt really hurt and I think she noticed, but it didn’t slow her stride toward the door. I thought only guys had a reputation for pulling this sh@#.
Is it possible she’s making sure that we (or I) don’t fall in love?
Sincerely,
Sigh
Is she making sure that we don’t fall in love?
A:
Dear Sigh,
Yes. Next time you should think about a fee or get a “head,” whichever you find is more appropriate.
Consider yourself lucky to have someone who isn’t playing games with you. She is, so far, pretty straightforward with her intentions. If you are seeking more than sex, like a foot massage or a badminton partner, then asking the right person would be a good start.
Read the signs and trust your instincts, bro.
Good Luck,
EE
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